Are you wanting more out of your relationships? Do you want to go deeper with your current partner or to explore alternatives to conventional heterosexual monogamous marriage? Do you want to create your relationships more consciously?

I can help you explore what you want in your relationships and work with you to develop the communication tools to create the kind of intimacy that you desire. I encourage you to become allies with your friends and lovers, helping each other grow and flourish and giving each other support in difficult times. I assist you in becoming conscious in your interactions, helping you to observe yourself with compassion while you’re becoming aware of your tricks and foibles.

To discuss improving your relationship (or deciding to move on), give me a call. I use a variety of approaches depending on the situation and the people. Tradional Monogamy or non-traditional, I teach communication and decision-making skills. I support people to make mindful decisions about their sexuality and their relationships. I help people who wish to examine alternatives to conventional relationships, encouraging them to find the lifestyle that works for them, whether monogamous or not. The people in the relationships write the rules for their relationship. So what do you want out of your relationship?

When you’re not monogamous, sometimes the issues aren’t about polyamory or your alternative lifestyle. Having a poly friendly counselor helps keep the focus on the real issues.